When you move in with someone

Sep 20, 2026

Short answer: Two wardrobes in one closet means half the space per person. That forces a clear-out, and it is usually a good thing, because afterwards you are left with the clothes you actually wear and enjoy.

Space decides

A standard wardrobe holds around fifty items per person when shared, and anything beyond that needs somewhere else to go. That sets a natural limit on how much you can bring. Start by gathering the base layers you wear every week, such as your favourites among the most popular Copenhagen Bamboo styles, and build from there.

Shared laundry changes the routine

Two people's clothes fill a washing machine faster, which means more washes or better sorting. Agree early on how you will do it so it does not become a source of irritation. Wash darks together and lights together, including your women's bamboo t-shirts, and choose a low temperature that suits most items.

Share what can be shared

Some things can be shared, such as throws, towels and perhaps a big sweater for sofa evenings. But base layers and socks are personal and should stay separate by size. Keep your women's bamboo sweatshirt and the rest of your own clothes apart so neither of you wastes time searching.

Clear out before the move

It is easier to sort before clothes are packed in boxes. Go through your wardrobe and set aside anything you have not worn in the past year. Pass it on or sell it while it still looks good. That way you only move what you really want and avoid filling the new closet from day one.

Agree on who has which space

Many clashes over clothes are about space, not the clothes themselves. Agree from the start which drawers and shelves belong to whom. That makes it easier to keep things tidy and to see when it is time for another clear-out. A fixed place for everything also saves time in the morning.

Store seasonal clothes elsewhere

Winter clothes in summer and summer clothes in winter take up a lot of room in a shared closet. Put them in boxes under the bed or in the loft and swap them when the season changes. You then have only what you wear now close at hand.

Protect clothes in a busy wash

With more washing, it is tempting to throw everything into one load. But soft fabrics benefit from a gentle wash. Turn clothes inside out, use a mild detergent and air dry. They keep their shape and softness even when washed alongside more than before.

Give it time

It takes time to find a rhythm when two routines become one. The first clear-out is rarely the last. After a few months, see what is still unused and tidy up again. Over time you find a balance where both of you have room for what you wear.